Want to woo a lady? Learn to dance and let her sniff you

GUYS, ever wanted to know what women truly find sexy about a man? It isn't just their sense of humour.

The top five unexpected things women find sexy are:

1. Your smell. Yes a nice cologne works wonders, but your body odour can turn her on too.

Research shows a man's natural scent can turn a woman on in a matter of seconds. In fact, scientific experiments have shown that based on the smell of his t-shirt alone, a woman can tell if she is attracted to him - without even seeing his face.

So get a little closer gentlemen and let her get a good whiff of you.

2.  Your manners. It's a modern world, but old-fashioned chivalry is alive and well in the dating and relationship scene.

If you are rude or inconsiderate to a waiter on a date, she is likely to think you will be to her too.

But if you show lovely manners not just to her, but those around you, she is more likely to drop her guard and let you in because she will consider you a decent guy.

And if she drops her guard and warms to you socially, she's more likely to warm to you in all ways.

3. Your feminine side. Does a woman love a hot, hard, chiselled sex machine? Yes.

Does she think it's sexy if that macho man gives her a massage, rubs her feet, paints her nails or has a bath with her? Oh, yes she does.

Drop the tough guy vibe sometimes and be tender with her, do touchy-feely activities together that pamper her or you both. Indulgence is sexy every once in awhile.

4. Your secrets. Most women find intimacy sexy. Tell her your secrets, share your heart, reveal your vulnerabilities and she doesn't think you're weak at all - she thinks you're strong, brave and most of all special and very sexy.

5. Your rhythm. Women love a guy who can dance. Can't dance? Go learn.

You don't need to be able to sweep her off her feet, but holding a rhythm and not being shy to slow dance with her in the lounge, or step on to the dance floor with her when you're out on the town is super sexy to a woman whether it's a first date or a 10th anniversary together. Some say dancing is like making love dressed.

So if you do it well, some women say there's nothing sexier.

Topics:  dating editors picks opinion relationships

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